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Where can i find a mature lesbian to share my first lesbo experience with near the lapeer michigan area? No older then 45 and must b fit and in shape. Not looking for a relationship just some fun. Just once unless you do what i like then we can b friends. Im into a little bdsm. And would like to video tape. | | Try fetish sites like Fetlife.com or Collarme.com You can search for women in your area that may share interests with you. It perhaps sounds like you'd appreciate being led into this by a Domme that is willing to meet for play dates and guide you into this lifestyle. At any rate, when you join FL, also join 'seek' or 'classified' groups in your area and advertise yourself. You can also search for munch and get togethers in your area. That would be a great way to find friends and perhaps a mentor. I hope you find what you're looking for! | *Mature Question* Women is this a normal thing for you??? OK where do i start... im trying to make a strip tease video for my boyfriend and i have no clue how to. I checked some videos out and as i was watching, i became extremely horny.. i mean if i get turned on by women does that make me bi? Im straight i only like men..but women also turn me on. .. i only look at the lesbian videos only so i can get ideas for my bf and i.. | | Is that really the only reason. If you love the female form don't be ashamed of it. Women are great. Our bodies are beatuiful with curves that will blow your mind. No mans body can excite me this way. Explore yourself and what you like. | This question is really busting my brains off...? okay, i have been scouring youtube for mature themed videos(you know with all the nudity and kissing...sorry for the younger users), and i am really fascinated with the comments. However, when i view gay/lesbian mature themed videos, the comments are like: what the hell?!?! or eww, they're gay/lesbian or they should be killed or something of sorts. I mean, why would they watch the video if they will just comment on it as DISGUSTING, or something of that sorts. It's like, what the hell, why are you commenting on the video on such...vile way? why would they watch the video in the first place if they'll just give such overnegative feedbacks? is there psychology behind this? please help... it's busting mybrains off! | | Simply to get their opinion out that they're disgusted with what they've seen. Yes, it's a bit ignorant and unnecessary, but it's how they choose to deal with it. Yes it is some psychology behind it and unfortunately I'm not too sure exactly what it is. That type of "hate" has been used in several situations. Like when the football team shows up at the talent show just to make fun of the guy who's less popular. Or when a racist shows up at an ethnic gathering just to shout obsenities. It's just to publicly display hate and people that go out of their way to show hate are the true definition of a "hater". | Help ! ..My beautiful girlfriend worked in porn ( lesbian and nude modelling ) How can I really deal with it? Hi everyone.
This is the first time I've needed to make such a question public.
However, I'm finding it very difficult to come to terms with.
My girlfriend and best friend of 10 months, who I love and care for, did some explicit nude modelling shoots and videos (some lesbian but mostly solo, with "toys").
I only found out because her ex-bf sent an email containing some professional nude pics of her to her work and friends (including me) out of spite.
She told me she did some nude modelling (some distasteful) when she was 18-19yo (she's just turned 22 now) for money and a bit of fun.
I knew I shouldn't have, but I couldn't help but visit the sites she said she had done shoots for. She said it was long ago and she doesn't feel the need to do it again, and that she is a different person now. But seeing everything she did, and the explicit things people wrote about her on the website forums makes me so dizzy and heartbroken. I've spoken to her and she's told me about everything basically, but I still find myself asking questions in my head, and then I feel the need to ask her. Her last boyfriend became violent and cold when he found out, so she's hoping I can just put it behind me like she did, instead of bringing it up. But it's not that easy. It's hard to deal with, knowing that I want to spend the rest of my life with someone I feel is my soulmate, but the fact is that anyone can just go online and see every tiny inch of her and her privates in graphic detail, masturbating in videos and using dildos..close ups and everything..even videos of her face while she's orgasming. She is a beautiful girl, and a few of the sites have her on their "tour" and promo videos. I try to tell myself that the main thing is that she is with me, and nobody can experience what it is like to feel her love. It still hurts though.. I wish I was a hacker so I could take it all off the net but it's impossible.
I wonder if she will ever feel the need to re-visit that side of herself or whether it was a once-off thing. Maybe others who have been in her situation could shed some light on that?
Otherwise, it would really help to hear from others in my situation, or from people with ideas on how I can deal with it, without continually bringing the subject up with her and driving her away. I don't want her to feel that I think she's dirty or that I can't trust her..she might think it easier to be with someone else who doesn't know her past. But for now, she says she loves me and wants nothing more than to be with me. So I'm putting everything I have into our partnership..I just hope I can get through this total mind f**k.
Any mature ideas, feedback and guidance would be muchly appreciated :) | You have to seriously ask yourself what's really bothering you about this. Is it that...
a) she modeled in the nude?
b) she modeled in the nude with another woman?
c) you're embarrassed for yourself that other people might see those photos?
Your whole question is about YOU.
YOU are ''heart-broken.'' YOU are ''hurt.'' YOU find it ''hard to deal with.'' YOU find the need to make her answer YOUR ''questions.''
But does what she did bother her? You said she's put it behind her.
So it seems fairly obvious that YOU are the one who can't deal with it.
Do some major soul-searching. If you can't get over it by the time you read the answers here, then start acting mature yourself, tell her you need some time to grow up and that she deserves someone better. | I'm not sure if I'm bi or straight. Any details to know for sure? Whenever I'm watching porn I always want to look at the lesbian videos. Never the ones with guys in them. I guess ***** are just repulsive to me, and I'm not mature enough for them yet or something. Whenever I see all these shows on Mtv or where ever of these girls making out and hooking up, it makes me want that too. I don't know if I'm just curious or what but I want to know if anyone else experienced this when they were younger? | Nah... I think BlueGreen answers it beautifully - don't draw any conclusions from porn, cause that is just design to entertain/confuse your mind ;o)
Yes, all the male-organs-and-male-fluid worshiping movies are pretty gross and disgusting. But they are primarily designed for lone male wankers who perhaps like to imagine that girls should worship that.
Of course you as a girl are not supposed to get turned on by that!
You are supposed to get thrilled and please by a real guy really liking you in ways that you never imagined you could be liked. And maybe some fun surprises, and just very warm and nice.
You don't have to go lesbian just because you don't like wanker movies ;o) They ARE repulsive - that is part of their fascination to some. But that's not how real life is supposed to be. | Is my boyfriend gay? mature answers only plz? i asked this question last night, but i want to see how it does with a different crowd.
reasons i think he may be gay:
-just recently i discovered a myspace page that he had before he met me, on that page for his orientation it says not sure...i confronted him, he got mad and denied it, he said i was dwelling on it and i need to believe him. then he said his friend created the page and then he just simply said he doesnt know and thats that.
- he's very sensitive, we could be having sex and he'll want me to take it more slow and look him in the eyes and tell him i love him.
- he's clean, he takes at least an hour in the shower and sometimes showers more than once
- he's mentioned that he thinks some male celebrities are "good looking"
- his brother sort of raped him when he was younger ( he tried to stick his penis in his *** but my boyfriend stopped him)
- he's given his male friends a teabag which is where he took his testicles out and placed them on their forehead as a way to embarrass them he says, seems weird to me though.
- im only the 5th girl he's had sex with and he's 25
- his ex was sort of a dyke
- he's not big on giving oral to women, even in the past, but he's big on receiving
- he would do anything his mother told him to, his dad not so much, he hangs out with his mom, goes shopping with her...but he was raised only by his dad
- his dad is a little bi-curious (idk maybe it's genetic)
- he watches a lot of girly shows like designing women, sex and the city and golden girls
reasons i think he's straight:
- i'll notice him checking women out
- he gets turned on very easily with me
- he talks about having a future with me as his wife and having guys
- everytime we break up he goes on myspace and talks to tons of girls, telling them how beautiful they are, but idk, is this a cover up???
- he only owns and watches lesbian porn.
- he says that he can't watch straight porn cuz he cant look at another man's ****
-he likes manly things, like fighting, action, and violent movies and video games.
-he's very protective.
-he gets jealous easily if he thinks im into another guy.
-he's done so much for me and stuck by myside when i put him through so much abuse, both physically, verbally and mentally, so apart of me feels like if he were gay, why devote so much to a girl, why care so much and go to such great extremes for a girl.
idk, im confused. | First I have meet, to my embarrassment, effeminate, sensitive men that were straight.
I work with sexually abused guys, and they for a long time question if they are this or that.
Hence is statement on myspace is normal.
If you want to help him as a person, not your boyfriend, then support him and say you would like to help him find himself.
Suggest he go where there is lot of people of both sexes and all ages.
he can then figure out what turns him on.
However if he wish to hold one to you as his, then you have a more difficult place, and he may not share with you his finding's
bottom line is your prodding will not help his insecurity.
you can only love him and hope for the best. | Is my boyfriend gay? mature answers only plzzz? reasons i think he may be gay:
- he's very sensitive, we could be having sex and he'll want me to take it more slow and look him in the eyes and tell him i love him.
- he's clean, he takes at least an hour in the shower and sometimes showers more than once
- he's mentioned that he thinks some male celebrities are "good looking"
- his brother sort of raped him when he was younger ( he tried to stick his penis in his *** but my boyfriend stopped him)
- he's given his male friends a teabag which is where he took his testicles out and placed them on their forehead as a way to embarress them he says, seems weird to me though.
- im only the 5th girl he's had sex with and he's 25
- his ex was sort of a dyke
- he's not big on giving oral to women, even in the past, but he's big on receiving
- he would do anything his mother told him to, his dad not so much, he hangs out with his mom, goes shopping with her...but he was raised only by his dad
- his dad is a little bi-curious (idk maybe it's genetic)
- he watches a lot of girly shows like designing women, sex and the city and golden girls
- just recently i discovered a myspace page that he had before he met me, on that page for his orientation it says not sure...i confronted him, he got mad and denied it, he said i was dwelling on it and i need to believe him.
reasons i think he's straight:
- i'll notice him checking women out
- he gets turned on very easily with me
- he talks about having a future with me as his wife and having guys
- everytime we break up he goes on myspace and talks to tons of girls, telling them how beautiful they are, but idk, is this a cover up???
- he only owns and watches lesbian porn.
- he says that he can't watch straight porn cuz he cant look at another man's ****
-he likes manly things, like fighting, action, and violent movies and video games.
-he's very protective.
-he gets jealous easily if he thinks im into another guy.
-he's done so much for me and stuck by myside when i put him through so much abuse, both physically, verbally and mentally, so apart of me feels like if he were gay, why devote so much to a girl, why care so much and go to such great extremes for a girl.
idk, im confused. | i would say that he probably is at least curious
i mean...to be fair you are naming alot of steryotypes but if its really confusing you on the issue the best thing to do is sit down and talk over it. He may feel some attraction or maybe its just in your imagination.Sometimes guys are afraid of being labeled "homo" so they try to hide it,which may be why he didnt want to talk over it.
But like i said,talk to him over it,he seems to care about you alot and is turned on by you,so i dont see any problems in this relationship.You may just not wanna lose a great guy :D(as a side note,im not gay i love women) but like i said,talk it over and you should get your answer.
hope i helped :3 | What do you think of this snippet from an article I wrote on bullying, gay suicide, "It Gets Better Project"..? and "Wear Purple Day"??
Y!A does not allow me to post more than 5000 charecters, so here goes-
One could say these suicide victims were ‘bullied to death’. They include- Justin Aaberg, Tyler Clementi, Seth Walsh, Billy Lucas, Asher Brown, Raymond Chase, Cody J. Barker, and a few others. The victims of the past few month’s suicides have ranged from thirteen to nineteen years old; lived all across the nation, literally from coast-to coast; committed suicide in a variety of ways, such as hanging; and died the earliest being July, the latest being sometime around Mid-September.
“Closed-minded school administrators and parents may not let LGBT adults talk directly to their guyren about their futures, but we don’t have to get permission to tell guys that life gets better. That’s why we’re compiling a video archive to share the stories of people overcoming bullying and finding happiness,” is written on ItGetsBetterProject.com. In response to these tragic suicides Dan Savage---media pundit and writer of the mature advice column Savage Love---Mid-September founded the “It Gets Better Project” (IGB); an online compilation containing videos of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) adults, along with several straight-allies; telling their life stories, promising to LGBT youth that even though life may be difficult right now--- it does get better; hoping that LGBT youth will be less likely to commit suicide if they have hope for their futures.
Quite a few “It Gets Better” videos have been posted on Youtube as well as the official site. Since the creation of the project a few months ago, its popularity has spread like wildfire. Several gay and straight, A-list and D-list celebrities and organizations have participated in the cause.
“...To anybody who’s being bothered, or abused, or harassed, or bullied; I just wanted to tell you that, umm, it will get better, it will. No matter if you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender...,” says Ke$ha, newly-popular hip hop and pop singer, on Youtube. “When people are mean for no reason, it’s horrible, but I swear to God it will get better; so please, don’t ever give up.” While Kathy Griffin, popular comedian and self-proclaimed “D-lister” said, “So all you gay teens that are watching this- even if you’re in a very republican area or conservative town, you’re not alone....But what I can say, with great confidence, is it does get better...” Some of the celebrities, who have advocated the IGB project include- Anne Hathaway, Secretary-of-State Hillary Clinton, Neil Patrick Harris, Adam Lambert, reality-TV star Kim Kardashian, Harry Potter star Daniel Radcliffe, talk show host Ellen Degeneres, pop-star Ke$ha, President Barack Obama, comedian Kathy Griffin, and many more. All of them had wisdom-filled insights to offer to struggling LGBT youth who want to ‘end things’ because of constant discrimination. “...This needs to be a wake-up call to everyone that teenage bullying and teasing is an epidemic in this country and the death-rate is climbing....And I want anyone out there who feels different, and alone, to know, that I know how you feel. There is help out there and you can find support in your community...Things will get easier, peoples minds will change and you should, you should be alive to see it,” says openly-gay, talk show host Ellen DeGeneres , while holding back tears, on her daytime talk show. Also, President Obama thought bullied- youth needed to hear the following statements. “But what I want to say is this, you are not alone, you didn’t do anything wrong, you didn’t do anything to deserve being bullied, and there is a whole world out there waiting for you filled with possibilities...The other thing you needa know is, things will get better, and more than that with time you’re gonna see that your differences are a source of pride and a source of strength..." | | Amazing! Keep up the good work, and you may grow up to be the one who ends discrimination against the LGBT community!! | Is my wife a lesbian, bisexual, confused, or what? Well, here goes: I am a 29 year old man. I have known my wife for 9 years, and we have been married for 4. Today is our anniversary, actually. We have been through a lot of changes in these 4 years, and we have definitely matured. There is mutual affection and appreciation. However, time has revealed things that were perhaps unknown to either of us when we began dating 6 1/2 years ago. I am concerned that my wife might be gay, or something along that line. She saw her first "porn" video when she was 12... it was girl-on-girl, and something in that stuck with her, but perhaps buried deep down. She has never had any physical contact with another woman, and it's not as if she's actively seeking to do that. Incidentally, I took my wife's virginity as well. She was raised very conservatively and had virtually no contact with men until we began dating. Currently, she is 4 1/2 months pregnant with my firstborn - she is very excited about coming in to motherhood. When we were first dating and getting married, she was extremely in to me sexually... she took an interest in it. Over time, the harsh realities of living in 21st century America and all its stresses took their toll on us. I was in the Marine Corps when we were first married, and she was in the middle of law school. I got out and she got out, and jobs were hard to find... we ended up staying with her folks for awhile until we secured employment. Her job was terrible and her *****-boss was abusive mentally/emotionally. So she quit. Things have turned upward for us in the last year though, and it's starting to show some light at the end of the tunnel. I'm telling you these details so that you will have some background through which to filter your answer of my question.
Not long ago, my wife said to me that she could be perfectly content with me having a "mistress" for my "needs" and her having a "handmaiden" around the house to help her, and then satisfy her "needs." She said the only thing that would bother her about this scenario is if I were to have guyren with another woman. She would feel jealousy in that situation. --- Something in that conversation resonated with me, and I then recalled to mind the handful of discussions that we have had over the years about her strictly-sexual-attraction to the ladies. But as I've said, it's not as though she has actively sought it out. Another thing, she tells me that she is physically attracted to me (which I believe she is being honest, I am pretty damn good looking and in good shape!). It's not like I'm bad in the sack... I used to be able to get her off no problem. But in recent months, it's like she can't orgasm... even before she was pregnant this was happening.
The other thing: She has stated vehemently that she could never be emotionally intimate with another girl. That very thought is almost repulsive to her. She believes men should be men. My wife is very feminine, a girly girl with "I must save the world" tendencies. So it's not like she is looking for "love" from another lady... or is she just naive about her physical attraction to girls?
Keep in mind, it's not like she talks about this frequently at all. After all, nearly all straight women have some mild attraction to other ladies.
She's very kind to strangers, and generous with everyone... she has never cried for herself, but she cries for others a lot. Her heart is pure gold...
But, for some reason... I dont know what it is... her interest in being physically intimate with me (besides lying close to me and being non-sexually intimate) is basically zero. She won't turn me down if I'm really needing it, but she just doesn't have the desire I suppose for initiating it, and it seems like her need for sex (at least from me) is gone. What's going on folks? Thanks for the help. | All of this sounds pretty normal. Let's break it down.
1) She is pregnant and her body chemistry is all out of whack right now, so her thought process is not what it normally is.
2) You are the only person she has ever been with and she may be thinking about the experiences she has never had.
3) You have been together for several years, so the "Stuck in a rut" syndrome has started.
4) She is curious about physical sexual relations (Not emotional) with another woman, but has green lighted you to participate.
Things to do:
1) Until the guy is born, and for several months after, she will not have her normal chemistry back. Be patient and suportive.
2,3,4) Once things have settled down with having a small guy in the house (The late night feedings and extra work are going to take a toll on both of you) You should explore the possibility of addressing these issues. It sounds like you two are stable and love each other deeply, so open and honest comminication about her desire to have handmaiden to take care of your needs can take place in a safe and loving way. It may just be a fantacy, or it might be something the two of you may want to try for real. Just talking about this with her will make her feel like you are paying attention to her needs and will help to kick start her libido. Provestra is a product that can help in that area as well. Her desire for sex, and her orgasms will be enhanced by this product. As for the stuck in a rut syndrome, try some differnt things in bed and set up a special night. Candle lit dinner, bubble bath, full body message, make her feel sexy and desired. focus on her needs, not yours. Go to cosmopolitan magazine online and look at the sex articles section. Lots of good ideas there.
Happy anniversary and good luck. | Help me to finf out whether I'm a real lesbian or not... (details...)? I've had several boyfriends, but something was wrong. Although purely physical I'm not a virgin I've never had sex till the end with them, so these relationships were not in fully development.A couple of times I thought I'm in love (with some man), but later I always doubted it was a real attractiveness, so I don't really know. I find pictures/videos of naked men interesting, but in the real life, when it comes to sex, I pull out myself.I love so much more the female touch.I've shivered from a woman's touch and nothing compares to it.Sometimes I think that I suffer when a man persists for sex and suffer when I don't have the chance to be with a woman.I have fallen a couple of times in love with a woman, but I still don't know if it really was love, because I've never had a girlfriend and I don't know whether I'll like it. But I almost always like mature (not old) women.I don't know why the pretty young girls seem guyish and in most cases I don't find them really attractive. Opinion? | Ok, you say you know know whether you'll like it. Well theres only one way to find out! Go out and meet someone!
Try reading lesbian literature first if your still unsure about seeing a woman and see if you can empathise with them.
I can understand where you are coming from, i have been with men and find them very.... unsubtle as lovers.(sorry guys who read this)! and im very very attracted to women so my male friends are going to take me out to try and pull me a "stunner" as they put it. Men eh? Its just about exploration, go with what feels right and remember that there are loads of people cruising yahoo answers, feelings the exact same way. Your not alone and its totally natural. Take care honey xxxxx |
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